At 13 years of age I was told by my adopted mom that I was adopted. How did I handle this? I stuffed my emotions that led me to expressing with anger, frustration, impatience, harsh words, to a point when playing basketball, I heaved a gal across the court when she got in my way. The referree told me in a firm voice, you do that again, you will be benched for the game. He set a boundary which had me not do it again. Do you have the balls? Juggling stressful, shocking situatio